New York Wedding Bar Guide
Everything you need to plan your New York wedding bar—from SLA laws to local costs, where to source in the city, and what drinks New Yorkers actually want at weddings.
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New York Wedding Bar: What You Need to Know
New York weddings set the bar high—literally. Whether you're planning a Manhattan rooftop affair, a Brooklyn loft celebration, a Hudson Valley vineyard wedding, or a Long Island estate party, expectations for the bar are sophisticated. New Yorkers know their cocktails.
New York Drinking Preferences
The New York metro area is distinctly cocktail-forward compared to most of the country:
Classic martinis, Manhattans, craft cocktails
Quality expected, NY wines appreciated
Craft IPAs, local Brooklyn brews
Popular New York Wedding Drinks
- The Manhattan: The quintessential NYC cocktail—bourbon, vermouth, bitters
- Classic Martini: Gin or vodka, always an upscale NYC staple
- Espresso Martini: Huge in NYC, perfect for late receptions
- Negroni: Sophisticated, Instagram-worthy, very NYC
- Brooklyn craft beer: Other Half, Threes Brewing, KCBC
New York Wedding Bar Costs (2026)
| Bar Type | Per Person | 150 Guests | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| DIY (beer & wine) | $35-45 | $5,250-6,750 | + bartender $500-1,000 |
| DIY (full bar) | $50-60 | $7,500-9,000 | + bartender $500-1,000 |
| Venue package (standard) | $80-110 | $12,000-16,500 | All-inclusive |
| Venue package (premium) | $120-150+ | $18,000-22,500+ | Top-shelf + craft cocktails |
Cost by Region
Prices vary dramatically across New York State:
- Manhattan: +40-60% above state average (highest in the country)
- Brooklyn/Queens: +20-35% above average (trendy venues command premium)
- Long Island: +10-20% above average (wedding hotspot)
- Hudson Valley: On par with average (destination but competitive)
- Upstate NY: -15-25% below average (lower cost of living)
- Finger Lakes: -10-15% (wine country, local sourcing saves)
New York SLA Laws: What You Need to Know
Disclaimer
This is general information, not legal advice. Always verify current SLA regulations and consult with your venue for your specific situation.
Private vs. Public Events
- Private wedding (no alcohol sold): Generally no SLA permit needed
- Venue-served alcohol: Venue must have proper on-premises license
- Cash bar: Requires licensed venue and servers
- BYOB venues: Must have proper permit for alcohol consumption
NYC-Specific Considerations
- Most NYC venues handle all licensing and don't allow outside alcohol
- Loft weddings and non-traditional spaces may allow BYOB
- Rooftop venues often have specific capacity and hour restrictions
- Event insurance is highly recommended ($300-500)
Where to Buy Bulk Alcohol in New York
- • NYC institution, huge selection
- • 10-15% case discounts
- • Knowledgeable staff for pairings
- • Delivery in Manhattan
- • Long Island and Westchester locations
- • 10-15% case discounts
- • Wide selection, good prices
- • 30-day returns
- • Membership required in NY
- • Great prices on premium brands
- • Limited selection vs. liquor stores
- • New Rochelle, Long Island locations
- • Direct case discounts (20-40%)
- • World-class Rieslings
- • Custom labels available
- • Support local + impress guests
Winter Wedding Considerations
Winter Drink Shifts:
- • Red wine consumption increases 30%
- • Whiskey and bourbon rise in popularity
- • Hot cocktails (mulled wine, hot toddy)
- • Less beer consumption
Logistics:
- • Easier to keep drinks cold (outdoor)
- • Consider warm welcome drinks
- • Hot chocolate station for non-drinkers
- • Irish coffee for late-night
New York Signature Cocktail Ideas
The Manhattan
Bourbon, sweet vermouth, bitters
The quintessential NYC cocktail
Espresso Martini
Vodka, espresso, coffee liqueur
NYC nightlife staple
Paper Plane
Bourbon, Aperol, Amaro, lemon
Modern NYC classic
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New York Wedding Bar (Full Bar)
Spirits (40%)
- • 4 bottles bourbon (Maker's, Buffalo Trace)
- • 3 bottles vodka (Ketel One, Grey Goose)
- • 3 bottles gin (Hendrick's, Tanqueray)
- • 2 bottles rye (for Manhattans)
- • 2 bottles tequila
- • Vermouth, Campari, Aperol for classics
Wine (40%)
- • 20 bottles white (include NY Riesling)
- • 20 bottles red (Pinot, Cab)
- • 10 bottles sparkling
Beer (20%)
- • 4 cases craft IPA (Other Half, KCBC)
- • 3 cases lager (Sixpoint, Brooklyn)
- • 2 cases light beer
Supplies
- • 250 lbs ice
- • Citrus, olives, cherries
- • Mixers: tonic, soda, juices
- • 2-3 bartenders
Includes alcohol, bartenders, supplies. Excludes venue fees.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a permit to serve alcohol at my New York wedding?
For private weddings where no alcohol is sold (open bar), you typically don't need an SLA permit. However, venues serving alcohol must be licensed. Cash bars require proper licensing. Many NYC venues handle all licensing. Always verify with your venue.
How much does a wedding bar cost in New York?
New York wedding bars typically cost $35-60 per person for DIY or $80-150+ per person for venue packages. For 150 guests, expect $5,250-9,000 DIY or $12,000-22,500 for full service. NYC is the most expensive, with Hudson Valley and Long Island moderately less.
Where can I buy bulk wedding alcohol in New York?
Top options: Astor Wine & Spirits (NYC, excellent selection, case discounts), Total Wine (Long Island locations), Costco (membership required in NY), and local wine shops for curated selections. Finger Lakes wineries offer case discounts and wedding packages.
What drinks are popular at New York weddings?
NYC weddings lean toward craft cocktails and quality wine. Popular choices include classic martinis, Manhattans, negronis, and espresso martinis. Wine is expected at upscale venues. Brooklyn weddings often feature local craft beer. Hudson Valley weddings frequently showcase NY wines.
Can I bring my own alcohol to a New York wedding venue?
Many non-venue spaces allow BYOB (lofts, galleries, private clubs). NYC restaurants and hotels typically don't allow outside alcohol. Corkage fees range $20-50 per bottle in the city. Hudson Valley and Catskills venues are more BYOB-friendly.
What are the best New York wines to serve at a wedding?
Finger Lakes Rieslings are world-class and a point of local pride. Long Island produces excellent Merlot and Chardonnay. For sparkling, try NY producers like Dr. Konstantin Frank or Ravines. Serving NY wine is a sophisticated local touch.
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