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Wedding Bar Checklist

The complete guide to planning, stocking, and running the perfect wedding bar. From alcohol quantities to ice - everything you need in one place.

Rachel MorganOct 2025Updated Jan 20268 min read
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TL;DR - The Essentials

  • Alcohol: 1 drink per person per hour. For 100 guests, 4 hours: 14 cases beer, 28 bottles wine, 6 bottles liquor
  • Ice: 1.5 lbs per person (150 lbs for 100 guests)
  • Glassware: 2-3 glasses per person if no washing available
  • Budget: $15-40 per person for DIY bar
  • Staff: 1 bartender per 50-75 guests

Alcohol Checklist

Use the formula: guests × hours = total drinks. Then split by type based on your crowd. The standard split is 40% beer, 35% wine, 25% liquor - but adjust for your guests.

Beer
  • Light lager (most popular)
  • Domestic favorite
  • Craft/IPA option
  • Non-alcoholic beer

24-pack case = 24 drinks

Wine
  • Chardonnay
  • Pinot Grigio/Sauvignon Blanc
  • Cabernet Sauvignon
  • Pinot Noir/Merlot
  • Rose (optional)
  • Champagne/Prosecco (toasts)

750ml bottle = 5 glasses

Liquor
  • Vodka (essential)
  • Whiskey/Bourbon
  • Rum
  • Gin
  • Tequila

750ml bottle = 16-17 drinks

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Supplies & Equipment

Bar Setup
  • Bar table(s) - 6ft for small, 8ft for large
  • Tablecloths to floor level
  • Ice tubs or coolers (3-4 large)
  • Bottle openers (3-4)
  • Wine openers (2-3)
  • Cocktail shakers (if mixing)
  • Jiggers/measuring cups
  • Ice scoop (never use hands)
Service Items
  • Cocktail napkins (5 per guest)
  • Straws (if desired)
  • Drink stirrers
  • Trash bins (2-3 near bar)
  • Recycling bins
  • Bar towels (6-10)
  • Cutting boards
  • Sharp knives for garnishes

Mixers & Garnishes

Plan 1 liter of mixers per 3 guests. For 100 guests, that is about 33 liters total across all mixer types.

Essential Mixers
  • Club soda/sparkling water
  • Tonic water
  • Cola
  • Diet cola
  • Ginger ale
  • Lemon-lime soda
  • Orange juice
  • Cranberry juice
  • Pineapple juice
Garnishes & Extras
  • Lemons (1 per 4 guests)
  • Limes (1 per 4 guests)
  • Oranges (for old fashioneds)
  • Maraschino cherries
  • Olives (for martinis)
  • Simple syrup
  • Angostura bitters
  • Grenadine

Glassware Guide

If you have on-site dishwashing, plan 1.5 glasses per person per type. Without washing, plan 2-3 glasses per person total. For 100 guests without washing: 250-300 glasses.

Glass TypeUsed ForPer 100 Guests
Wine glassesRed & white wine100-150
Champagne flutesToasts100-110
Highball glassesMixed drinks, sodas75-100
Rocks glassesWhiskey, old fashioneds50-75
Pint glasses or cupsBeer100-150

Pro Tip: Consider Disposable

High-quality disposable stemless wine glasses and clear plastic cups look elegant and eliminate breakage worries. Cost: $0.50-1.50 per glass vs. $1-3 rental fee plus breakage charges.

Ice Requirements

Ice is the most commonly underestimated item. Plan 1.5 lbs per person for drinks, plus extra for chilling bottles.

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50 guests75-100 lbs
100 guests150-200 lbs
150 guests225-300 lbs
200 guests300-400 lbs

Ice Tips

  • Buy day-of or store in chest freezers
  • Double for outdoor summer weddings
  • Assign someone to ice duty
  • Have backup source identified

Planning Timeline

8-12 weeks

Initial Planning

  • Decide on bar style (full bar, beer/wine, signature cocktails)
  • Research venue alcohol policies
  • Get quotes from bartending services
  • Start estimating quantities with our calculator
4-6 weeks

Finalize Details

  • Confirm final guest count
  • Finalize drink selection
  • Book bartenders
  • Reserve glassware rentals
2-4 weeks

Purchase Alcohol

  • Buy alcohol (check return policy)
  • Order specialty items
  • Purchase mixers and garnishes
  • Buy bar supplies
1 week

Final Prep

  • Confirm delivery/pickup for rentals
  • Create bar setup diagram
  • Brief bartenders on signature drinks
  • Prepare garnishes
Day of

Setup

  • Pick up ice (morning of)
  • Set up bar 2-3 hours before
  • Chill white wine and beer
  • Prep garnishes and ice buckets
  • Brief bartenders on schedule

Budget Breakdown

Budget $15-40 per person for a DIY bar. Here is how it breaks down for 100 guests at a 4-hour reception:

Budget ($15-20/person)
Beer$280-350
Wine$280-350
Liquor$150-200
Mixers/Ice$100-150
Supplies$50-100
Total$860-1,150
Mid-Range ($25-35/person)
Beer$400-500
Wine$400-550
Liquor$250-350
Mixers/Ice$125-175
Supplies$100-150
Total$1,275-1,725
Premium ($40+/person)
Beer$550-700
Wine$600-900
Liquor$400-600
Mixers/Ice$150-200
Supplies$150-200
Total$1,850-2,600

Add $150-300 per bartender if hiring professional service (recommended).

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Underestimating ice

Ice runs out before alcohol. Plan 1.5-2 lbs per person and assign someone to monitor levels.

Forgetting the cocktail hour

Guests drink more during cocktail hour. Plan 2 drinks per person for that first hour.

Not chilling enough in advance

White wine and beer need 4+ hours to chill. Start the day before if using coolers.

Skipping the buffer

Buy 15-20% extra and return what you don't use. Running out is worse than over-buying.

Insufficient bartenders

One bartender for 100+ guests means long lines. Plan 1 per 50-75 guests.

Forgetting non-alcoholic options

15-20% of guests may not drink. Stock sparkling water, sodas, and mocktail options.

Frequently Asked Questions

How far in advance should I buy alcohol for my wedding?

Buy alcohol 2-4 weeks before your wedding. This gives you time to find deals, ensure availability, and make adjustments. Check your store return policy - most allow returns of unopened bottles within 30 days.

How much does a DIY wedding bar cost?

A DIY wedding bar typically costs $15-40 per person depending on drink quality. For 100 guests, budget $1,500-4,000 for alcohol, plus $200-500 for supplies (ice, mixers, glassware). This is often 40-60% cheaper than venue bar packages.

Do I need a bartender for a DIY wedding bar?

While not legally required in most places, hiring bartenders is highly recommended. They ensure responsible service, keep lines moving, and let your family enjoy the party. Plan 1 bartender per 50-75 guests. Cost: $150-300 per bartender for 4-6 hours.

What alcohol brands should I buy for a wedding?

For most weddings, mid-tier brands hit the sweet spot of quality and value. Examples: Tito's or Smirnoff (vodka), Jim Beam or Buffalo Trace (bourbon), Bacardi (rum), Tanqueray (gin). Save premium bottles for the head table if desired.

How do I keep drinks cold at an outdoor wedding?

Use large galvanized tubs or coolers with drainage. Pre-chill bottles before adding to ice. Plan 2 lbs of ice per person (double the normal amount for outdoor events). Consider renting a portable refrigerator for backup stock.

Can I return unopened alcohol after the wedding?

Most liquor stores accept returns of unopened bottles with receipt. Check the policy before purchasing. Costco, Total Wine, and many local stores offer returns within 30-90 days. Buy 15-20% extra and return what you don't use.

What mixers do I need for a wedding bar?

Essential mixers: club soda, tonic water, cola, ginger ale, orange juice, cranberry juice, and lime juice. Plan 1 liter of mixers per 3 guests. Don't forget lemons, limes, and simple syrup for cocktails.

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